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WHY INTENTION IS JUST EVERYTHING.

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+ this post is in collaboration with Lulus. As always, all opinions are my own.

INTENTION.

It’s so major for me. Is it for you? If so, let’s discuss. I feel like it’s such a vital part of building a business & relationships in general.

Intention is an energy we all put forward. It’s our thoughts, our feelings, our vibes.

Basically things, circumstances, & feelings are brought to reality. Your vibe attracts your tribe. Blah, blah, blah- you get it. But it really does! FOCUS GOES WHERE ENERGY FLOWS. So very true.

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I wanted to do this post because I return a lot of e-mails! E-mails where influencers or aspiring bloggers ask: where do I start? How should I lay out a brand? How do I monetize?

When I started blogging 8 years ago, I tried to really reframe this question. Instead, I focused on intention. In fact, my intention was always to distribute valuable, quality content to TSC readers. It was really that simple.

The intention was VALUE.

Let’s dig deeper with INTENTION though: intention is believed to be energy. Energy is known to always be in motion. Feelings become our energy and whatever we feel seeps through to the surface. If there’s shame, guilt, or fear, it vibrates at a lower frequency. When we display love, relaxation, & acceptance, our vibe attracts a high energy. I KNOW THIS THANKS TO TONY ROBBINS- haha, but really he gets it!

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Here’s the question of the day: if you’re starting a business or relationship: what’s your intention? Your intention is a magnet.

Wayne Dyer says, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.”

A different perspective quite often changes your view.

The way I focus on intention: it shows up in my Morning Pages ( 3 pages, every morning, every day, with no expectations or stress. It’s that easy. Small, healthy, daily habits create great success ). To sit down & write out everything I’m feeling in one mind-dump session very much helps me gain clarity & keeps me clear on my intention. Yoga helps immensely with intention. Meditation is a practice that allows you to really zone in on whatever your message is- FABULOUS for setting intentions!

I guess this post is a post for everyone including myself: what is your daily intention? 

When you lead with this as your focus, energy will naturally follow.

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OK! SO, WE’VE COVERED INTENTION.

NOW, let’s talk about this dress. It’s flirty, right? Covered in tiny cherries & also VERY flattering. It’s tight in the waist & lays in the perfect position on the thighs. I paired it with classic tennis shoes & a bright red purse. Last minute I threw on some BRIGHT, reddish-with-a-hint of orange lipstick.

This dress is perfect for 1.) a night out on the town with cocktails. 2.) every single day of SPRING! 3.) a casual look: like if you’re just going for Pinot Grigio brunch on a Saturday. It’s from Lulus & found here. I love Lulus SOOOO much! I find so many good finds on this site. Seriously, I swear, they have so many classic pieces that are in my closet at all times. They’re chic but affordable, & I’m into it. ANYWAY! Check out my cherry dress here.

lulus flirty cherry mini dress red purse by the skinny confidential

OK. I’ll leave you with this: “It’s our intention. Our intention is everything. Nothing happens on this planet without it. Not one single thing has ever been accomplished without intention.” – Jim Carrey.

WHAT’S YOURS?

HAPPY WEEKEND GUYS- have fun!

X lauryn

+ be sure to listen to the latest podcast on TSC MASTER LIST. It’s a solo episode & very much straight to the point.

++ this post is in collaboration with Lulus. As always, all opinions are my own.

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lulus flirty cherry mini dress red purse by the skinny confidential

  1. If you struggle with any part of the manifesting process, you must learn law of attraction meditation techniques. It will help you to change your negative thought to the positive one. Raising your vibrational frequency in order to manifest is not an easy task if you don’t know all of the necessary techniques. There are various types of Law of Attraction Meditation.

  2. I have always believed that all our dreams, hopes, and goals CAN come true (even the biggest & most insane ones, lol), with the right INTENTIONS, WORK ETHIC, and BELIEFS + VALUES. This post was a great reminder, just when I needed it. 🙂

    xx Sara
    https://thecliqueblog.com

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