The Art of The Blow Job: Everything You Need to Know About The Bunny Ranch’s Top Bunny

If you don’t remember Alice from the podcast, let me re-introduce you.

On the episode we sit down with Alice Little, America’s highest earning legal sex worker. We dive deep into the world of legal sex work & the common misconceptions around the profession.

Alice also goes into a day in the life as a legal sex worker at the Moonlight Bunny Ranch in Reno, Nevada. She also talks about some of the clientele at the Bunny Ranch & how sex education is behind in many parts of the world.

If you haven’t listened yet, be sure to. It’s such a good one.

As a woman who supports women, I think it’s important to support ALL women & their causes, whatever that may be. After talking with Alice on the podcast, I learned so much about her life & what a hustler she is. She’s smart, savvy, well-read, & she’s the perfect person to give us all the tips & tricks to giving the best blow job ever.

( You should also know she’s coming back & doing a 3 part series which will include oral sex tips for pleasing a woman too, so stay tuned. )

You should also know that we’re going to continue to discuss ‘taboo’ subject like this. Take what you like, leave what you don’t.

With that, let’s get right into how to give the best blow job ever.

♡ Introduce yourself & give us a quick background. 

Alice Little: I’m Alice Little- America’s most successful legal sex worker. I’ve been in this profession for the past 4 years, but my passion for intimacy education extends far beyond my experience at the ranch.

When I was 18, I was living in NYC & moved in with a complete stranger, randomly selected by the college. My new roomie was unpacking… & just so happened to own a suspicious amount of dog collars… & leashes… & whips. You get the picture. I had begun my own kink-exploration a couple years earlier while still in high school, so I was quite comfortable with the idea of having a dominatrix-as-a-roomate. But one doesn’t just announce such things to the person they met mere hours before. So, we danced around the topic for several days- each slyly dropping hints & hanks of rope, like some weird, kinky gingerbread-house breadcrumb trail.

One night, after finding an obviously not forgotten leather corset, I straight up asked “Top, Bottom, or Switch?” in reference to the different BDSM archetypes. She laughed, I laughed, & the next day, I started my new job as the front desk receptionist of an elite New York pro-dungeon.

My responsibilities included scheduling national & international sex educators, & curating a well rounded program for education. One evening, the scheduled presenter canceled last moment due to a snowstorm. No biggie- I’ll just… teach what I know. Next thing I know, I’m being invited to present at all sorts of local events, which eventually led to me traveling & teaching across 48 states, & 3 different countries! As exciting as that sounds- in reality, the struggle was REAL.

No one gets rich from teaching BDSM & sex education- it’s something you do because you’re passionate about it, not because it pays the bills. Many events simply can’t afford to pay lavishly, while still keeping the event cost-accessible. As such, it should come as no surprise that many sex educators are always looking for additional opportunities to use their unique skill sets to find financial success! That’s how I came to learn about the world famous Moonlite Bunny Ranch, & eventually fell down the rabbit hole that lead me to this life path.

A fellow educator turned to me one day after a presentation I had just given on safe sex for threesomes, & casually mentioned that she had just earned several thousand dollars from a threesome just the week before in Nevada. Jaw, meet floor. Within the hour, I had applied on the website via my cell phone. Within 24 hours, I had a phone interview with HR. Within 72 hours, I had booked a one-way ticket out to Nevada to begin working as a Legal Sex Worker. HOLY SHIT.

Anxiety isn’t even the right word for how I was feeling. PANIC AND TERROR may be more accurate. Imagine a scenario where you’re supposed to stand side-by-side with some of the most attractive, sexually charged, & confident women in America, & potentially negotiate with whomever happens to walk in through the front door. That was & is my reality- what I just described is a line-up, just one of several ways ladies can meet & connect with their potential guests.

I’m tiny. Like…I’m 4’8” tiny, so I felt VERY small, & VERY nervous standing in that lineup. However, I soon overcame my nerves through practice, experience, & a lot of internal personal work. By the end of my first 12 months of working, I was the most successful woman that year. I did the same the year after. Year 3? I was the first person in my industry to ever book 7-figures in a single calendar year.

It’s safe to say that I know intimacy intimately. I have enjoyed the company of people from all walks of life- from Fortune 500 CEOs, to a returning war vet who had just lost both his legs, his right arm, & his testicles. I’ve held a man as he sobbed with grief from the death of his wife, & celebrated a 69th wedding anniversary with a couple who wanted to enjoy their first threesome. I’ve taught both men & women about the art of oral sex- and now, I want to share those secrets with you too!

♡ I feel like most of my pregnancy has been spent on my knees ( LOL ). We need all the tips on blow jobs we can get ! First off, let’s get basic- what’s the best position for a woman to be in to give a great blow job? 

AL: When exploring oral sex, it’s EXTREMELY important for both partners to be completely comfortable. I recommend sitting your man down on the edge of the bed or chair, so his feet are flat on the floor, spread apart. From there, kneel or sit on the floor in whichever position is most comfortable for you, facing his body. The beauty of this position is that it allows for eye contact- which is INCREDIBLY hot during oral! It’s pretty difficult to look up at your man if he’s flat on his back. Not to mention you can easily adapt how you are seated and situated so both your hips and neck are comfortable!

♡ Lube. Yes? No? Speak on that.

AL: Lube- It really depends if you’re using a condom or not, as well as if your partner is circumcised! An uncircumcised fellow likely is going to self- produce all the lubricant needed, whereas someone who is uncircumcised may appreciate a little bit of lube to get things started. This is because an uncircumcised penis is protected by the foreskin, & tends to be naturally lubricated & sensitive. Where as someone who has been circumcised isn’t going to have that same barrier, & will be less sensitive due to constant contact with clothing, boxers, etc.

Lube helps to increase sensation & enhance stimulation- especially when you’re first starting off! If you’re using a condom, I recommend using just a touch of lube to get things started- a little really goes a long way, so don’t overdo it too much!

♡ What are some tantalizing, unique things that we can do during a blow job?

AL: Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact. Put yourself in his shoes- how tantalizing is it to have your partner pause right before taking you into their mouth, and give you a look that says ‘That’s right, I’m gonna blow you…and you’re gonna LOVE it!’. Pretty damn hot, right? Take advantage of little pauses in the action to bring intensity and energy into the action with things like tracing his inner thigh with the tips of your fingernails. Another great tip is to get your hands involved in the action too! You can support his balls with one hand, & use the other to ‘pump’ his length in tandem with your mouth. The added sensation from your hand and mouth working together can be very intense, and a great way to bring your partner to climax! You can also have a lot of fun with warm/cold liquids too- take a sip of warm tea first, and see how he reacts!

♡ You have 2 minutes to give a blow job, what are you going to do?

AL: I’m blowing him with his pants still on, him standing with me kneeling in front, unbuttoning the front and sliding down the zipper for access. Then, I’m going to use my hands to ‘pull’ his body and hips towards my mouth, encouraging him to ‘thrust’ forward naturally in tandem with my motions to really keep things hot, heavy, and steamy.

♡ How important is the ‘flick of the wrist’ move?

AL: Not at all! If anything, I find this action to be one that’s overused- many men use a similar technique during masturbation, and what you’re going for is something different and unique, sensation wise. Instead, wrap your fingers around the very base of him, and ‘squeeze’ lightly instead. This is going to stimulate him in such a way that his body will believe he’s deep inside of you and will respond accordingly! There are some major pleasure points located all around the base- so don’t be afraid to make a little circle with your fingers and really provide pressure there.

♡ What about the balls? 

AL: Don’t forget his balls- touch them, caress them (lightly, of course!), and even give a very gentle squeeze to intensify what you’re already doing with your mouth! You can even lick or suck on them, doing so very lightly. Remember- sudden, intense movements are going to be painful rather than pleasurable, so do be delicate. I always liken how you handle balls to being how you handle eggs in the kitchen- Gently!

♡ Give us a detailed breakdown of the best blow job ever.

AL: First, set some time aside- at least an hour. Seriously! The secret is slowing waaaay down, and intentionally taking your time with each and every action. For example- how can you take his pants of seductively? One. single. Button. At. A. Time. Imagine how he’s going to squirm while the anticipation builds! Have fun with the tease too- slide his pants down slowly, kiss down his thighs while looking up at him with intense eye contact. Think to yourself ‘that’s right, I’m going to have MY way with YOU’. For many men, sex is an action they’re used to being in control of- especially oral. Nope! Not today, buddy! Now his pants are off, play with his boxers. I mean…really play with them. Trace your fingers over the hem line, perhaps even kiss right across nice and slowly so he feels both your mouth, as well as the material being pressed against him.

Keep teasing until he’s literally squirming- then, and only then, get those boxers out of the way! But wait…it’s your turn! Now he’s sitting there nice and naked, strip tease. Slowly. Make him watch and wait for it. Now…get him into position and seductively kneel in front, tracing your fingers over his hips, ass, and thighs while getting comfortable. Lick your lips, give him those bedroom eyes…and slowly tease him with just your tongue. Flick it over and around the tip, down the sides. Imagine you’re licking dripping honey off of him, and you want to clean up every last drop before fully taking him into your mouth.

At this point, he’s fit to explode- don’t let him! Keep the pace slow, you control the tempo and rhythm. Remember those pleasure points around the base I mentioned earlier? Put them to good use now, adding your hands into the equation. Continue slowly, sloooowly building the pressure and pleasure, increasing both speed and sucking pressure as he approaches climax. Once you can sense he’s close- eye contact. Keep that eye contact the ENTIRE time he’s orgasming! Now THAT’S how to give a blow job he’s NEVER going to forget 😉

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x, lauryn

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